The Neurodivergent Gift Guide

before we dive in, let me tell you that what I actually want for Christmas is to frolic all year round with no responsibilities, not to have to make myself THREE meals every day but still somehow have all of the nutrients I need, and also to live in a world that doesn’t feel inherently stressful. ANYWAY, if like me, you could do with a little help this time of year, let me take some of the stress off of your shoulders with this guide.

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💝 answer anyone who’s been asking you what you’d like this year
⭐️ think a bit less whilst buying things for other people

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Fidget Toys

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Fidget Toys 🧸

  • zebra’s my favourite, but there are plenty of options from translucent, to metallic and LOTS more!

  • know a CHEWER? depending on how tough or soft they like it, these textured silicone straws might go down a treat the way they did with one of my favourite ND humans!

  • super satisfying, even just to look at, since it’s clear! if it gets a little dusty, just run it under some water. it *isn’t* unbreakable but i guess that depends on how hard you go on the stretch

  • fidgets for grown ups. the whole site! seriously. get ready to want everything jaz makes. fidgets like you’ve never seen them before, catering to a whole range of sensory preferences 😍 really, really beautiful stuff

  • ok, that’s not their real name. these might be at the very top of my list of fidgets. stretchy, twisty, super stimmy looking, and kinda nice to fling around honestly. plus, this is a pack of 12 for people who inevitably lose things like i do!

  • i have a few mini slinkies, but the transparent neon ones just have a particularly addictive quality. i’ve also handed out a few to the plethora of neurodivergent humans around me too, since this is ALSO a pack of 12

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  • as you’ll see above, i’m a big fan of A LOT of fidget toys. however — when it comes to buying fidget toys for people in my life who seem to buy THEMSELVES everything they want, i sometimes have to get a little creative. in comes 🥁 ..luxury fidgeting! ONO roller’s fidget toys make really good gifts because they’re truly just.. fancy! the quality, materials and weight of ONO products really make them sensational to hold!

Health & Self Care

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Health & Self Care 🧠

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  • Trying to navigate the world with a neurodivergent brain is hard sometimes — we don’t know about you, but we personally appreciate adding in things to SUPPORT our brains rather than try to change them. This lovely supplement company was founded by a neurodivergent brain too 🥰

  • (reiterating myself when i say we all need as MUCH hydrating as we can get)

  • forever blown away by how many things essential oils can ACTUALLY fix. low mood? there’s an essential oil for that. antibacterial properties for the spot you picked? there’s an essential oil for that!

  • I always think (depending on the person) scent can be a really lovely gift to give. Even better if you give them options so they’re almost guaranteed to like something!

  • a very luxe body/hair/nail. can confirm it smells unreal. give me anything that makes taking care of my body novelty!

  • Slick Salve Lip Balm (because if they’re anything like me, they need all the hydrating they can get)

Clothing

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Clothing ☁️

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  • These weighted hoodies were LITERALLY designed to be anti-anxiety. Extra points for the thick, super high quality material and huge hood to hide under. Oh, and also that they wash extremely well — great for anyone as clumsy as us!

  • Okay yes, less glamorous, but hear us out.. if you have a neurodivergent friend who’s as lacking in coordination as us, they’ll appreciate this 🥲

Home Comforts

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Home Comforts 🌙

  • we’ve been incorporating these little beauties into our daily lives for YEARS for their ability to increase comfort and overall happiness levels beyond words 😌 bonus points for animal print too, obviously.

  • (so I can pretend I’m in another reality whilst I decompress)

  • nice, colourful glass straws for a heavenly drinking experience (to replace the set that i accidentally smashed all of)

  • (for the neurodivergent need to have several drinks at once)

  • this one’s a little luxe, but it’s organic, machine washable AND breathable, unlike many others. i know some of you go big with your gifts, but there are lower cost options elsewhere too ❤️

  • A weighted, heatable soft toy for extra comfort (also gently scented for lavender for anyone who needs to chill OUT like i do)

Hobbies

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Hobbies 🎨

  • Turning a wizzy brain off is a challenge, but we’ve found wholesome activities that allow us to reconnect with our inner child (like colouring) really helps..

  • We know these are a little fancy.. But sometimes fancy is what you want to gift, right? 🎁

  • UK, Midlands specific: Christmas wreath workshop by Roo, Sunday 8th December: 12:30pm - 3:00PM, Birmingham 

Self Discovery

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Self Discovery 💡

  • want to comfort someone who’s feeling depleted by the state of the world? jezz’s words and ideas are the perfect (metaphorical) warm hug for that!